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Agape Connection December 2019

For your review, please see our most current newsletter: Dec 2019 AH NL. Pam’s article this month talks about His Guidelines and Boundaries to keep us safe. You’ll also read about upcoming events, the home and school for boys, and Christmas wishes from our teens.

Please also see our updated Wish List on the website

November 2019

Not all is “Happy” as we approach these next few weeks. For most people, the holiday season can offer a variety of hard moments and emotions. The students and families we love here at Agape House are being stretched as their healing begins to take root. At the moment, they are challenged with a new way of learning to live, love and be loved. Though the discomfort is unsettling at times, staying the same is no longer an option.
I imagine many can relate to this.
Eucharisteo: a verb. An action of gratitude. A choice to offer thanks.
Sometimes, choices are hard to make. A choice, at times, could be a sacrifice. To choose to give up our mind, will and emotions for the sake of offering something of greater worth is truly sacrificial. The families of Agape House have made some hard choices in hopes of a stronger, healthier future for their child and their families. With a mindset of gratefulness during this time of separation, they press forward towards God’s plan.
In the midst of hard seasons, surrendering your heart to an attitude of gratitude can be a mighty force to be reckoned with! I pray this season you choose an attitude of genuine gratitude. Not only for your own heart, but for the hearts that you influence along the way.
May we experience a greater appreciation for the blessings in our lives this Thanksgiving as we choose to offer up a sacrifice of praise to our great God!
Through him then let us continually offer up a sacrifice of praise to God, that is, the fruit of lips that acknowledge his name.
Hebrews 13:15

Prayers and Praises
Join is in PRAISE for:
*An outing to the for King and Country concert in Madison that ministered to the girls in such a unique way!
*A strong finish of first quarter in school!
*A full house of students at the girl’s home and the opening of our boy’s home!
Join us as we PRAY for:
*A full-time live-in Resident Assistant and a part-time Resident assistant for the girl’s home as well as a part-time Resident Assistant for the boy’s home.
*Financial Provision to meet the needs of the ministry.
*Covering of the students as they embrace their journey of healing and an open heart to know God’s perfect plan over their lives.

Upcoming Events
Come Celebrate the warmth & wonder of Christmas at our
Sunday, December 8, 2019
1-4 pm
Come see BOTH our Girl’s and Boy’s Homes decorated for the holidays, cookies, coffee, warm cider to share, carols and lots of gifts available for purchase for all of the special people on your Christmas list.


Santa Cause & Tree Festival
Nov. 29 – Jan. 4
Join us at the “Tree Festival”
Agape House joins other charities to create a themed winter wonderland by first decorating a Christmas tree. Next, they surround their tree with an abundance of marvelous prizes, all based on their selected theme. When visitors attend the “Tree Festival” they can purchase raffle tickets to enter into any of the “Twelve Charities of Christmas” raffle boxes. They have a chance to win the grand prize and/or many other prizes. (Last year’s prizes included a trip to Hawaii, Florida, a moped, large screen TV, and much, much more!)
100% of the “Tree Festival” proceeds go directly to the charities.

As you do your holiday shopping this year, please remember us! While shopping Amazon Smile, choose “Agape House, Inc.” as your charity of choice.Proceeds from your purchases will be donated to us.






A Time for Everything….

Boys School to Open Monday September 16th
Help Needed this Saturday
8:30 am – 12:30 pm
at 119 Phillips Avenue, Walworth
The Boys School will be starting on Monday! Can you offer your time to help this ministry embrace it’s new season of healing for all teens? Whoever can help or if you know anyone that can help we will be putting the final touches together Saturday September 14th. We need painting, cleaning, and organizing of the boys school and home.
Dear Friends,
“There is a time for everything, and a season for every activity under heaven.”
~ Ecclesiastes 3:1
As the new school year begins, I would like to send praises to the Lord for all the wonderful staff, families, students and things, He has already provided for us. The 2019-2020 school year brings about changes in our ministry. With the boys school and home opening their doors this Monday, I am grateful to be a member of this amazing staff.
I asked the girls what they would like for prayers and ideas about what I should address. They were very willing to come up with some great ideas and topics.
The students are asking for prayer in these areas:
With some of them being away from home and not having contact with their families, asking that the Lord to take away the worry about what is going on at home without them. That God would send healing to those with health issues and that are receiving medical attention. Lord, bring these students peace and allow them to concentrate on their healing.
That the goals they have set can be achieved with grace and ease. May the Lord open their minds to receive the education and healing. Walk with them Lord, as they navigate right from wrong. Help them to to seek you in making the right decisions. Bring unity to them and may they create a strong sisterhood and brotherhood filled with love and understanding. “Behold, how good and how pleasant it is for brothers to dwell together in unity.” ~Psalm 133:1
My heart was filled with joy, at these requests. With this new season and time, I marvel at the way God has already touch some of these children’s lives. I feel the Lord’s embrace as I continue to walk beside each of them. 3 John 1:4 says, “I have no greater joy than to hear that my children are walking in the truth.”
Witnessing His truth being welcomed into these precious children’s hearts, is one of the most rewarding parts of my involvement in this ministry. Here’s to a season of healing and learning.
Please keep in your prayers, the boys school and home, as this is truly a new season.
Diane Frese
Resident Assistant, Teacher’s Aide

Approaching the Finish Line

Dear Friends,
We’re coming across the finish line with the renovation at the Home and School for Boys in Walworth!
Here is a list of tasks that need to be done yet; if you can help we would be so grateful and very encouraged!
Tasks (in order of importance):
  • Concrete/Wood Ramp
  • Framing
  • Electric Power
  • Lighting
  • Vents
  • Sheetrock Hung and Finished
  • Tile Installed
  • Painting
  • Vanities Installed
  • Cabinet’s Installed
  • Fixtures: plumbing/lighting/receptacles
  • Alarms Installed
  • Doors Installed
  • Windows Installed
If you are able to help, please call Bob Milliman at 815.404.1629.
Thank you for your consideration of this request.

A Step Closer to the Truth

Dear Friends,

As this school year is coming to the end, I would like to reflect upon how God has touched these teens’ lives. We’ve had a good year. The girls arrived last September; some with tears in their eyes, others reluctantly, others afraid, and some with a smile. I don’t think any of them knew quite what God had in store for them this year: more tears as they grieved past wounds, overcoming fears and learning bravery, accepting circumstances, and choosing life. None of us know just what God has in store for us – what’s around the next corner. But He is in control. Our prayer is these girls, our staff and our friends will learn to rest and trust in God as we near each curve, bump or hill on our path.

With the highs and the lows of this journey, the girls have grown. They have grown in the knowledge and love of the Lord. They have grown to love themselves a little more than yesterday. They are continuing to grow. A seed has been planted in each of them. It is being watered by the Holy Spirit. As it grows, they are healing and being set free by the truth.

“Then you will know the truth, and the truth will set you free.” John 14:6

I pray that we each step forward in truth, and that we allow the Holy Spirit to water our seed of faith. With our growth, we are healed and our chains are broken so that we may experience the freedom of walking in a true relationship with The Father.

Summer Office Hours

Tuesday, Wednesday and Thursday 9 AM – 3 PM

or by appointment call 262-275-6466


Praise Reports: 

The girls were given an assignment to pick three random words and to create one sentence for each word. Diane took those random sentences to create a poem. The growth of the girls can be seen in the powerful I AM statements in the poem. To read the poem, click here: Thoughts by the Agape Girls

Prayer Requests: 

As J- term starts, please pray that the students and families use the tools they have learned to make an easy transition. We pray that they continue to set healthy boundaries with each other. We pray that God continues to meet them in those moments of unrest and uncertainty.

We pray that God will bring the staff that is needed for the Agape Home and School for Boys. We ask that He answer our call for House Parents and Resident Assistants for the 2019-2020 school year.

Agape Home and School for Girls is praying to fill employment opportunities for the 2019-2020 school. A teacher and teacher’s aide position are currently vacant.

We ask God to bring us the people that have a heart for this ministry to fill the areas that are open.

Job descriptions and qualifications can be found by clicking this link: 2019-2020 School Year Employment Opportunities



We are excited to continue working on preparing the home and school for new boy residents!

Come and join us at 119 Philips Ave in Walworth.

We’ll be there every Saturday from 8:30 am – 12:00 pm until it’s finished.

Call Bob Milliman with questions: (815) 404.1629





Come Boldly…

Dear Friends,

As I was reading in Hebrews this verse stood out to me.

Let us therefore come boldly unto the throne of grace, that we may obtain mercy, and find grace to help in time of need.” Hebrews 4:16

This is so appropriate for what takes place at Agape House with our teens as they come to understand the value of who they are in Christ.



  • The girls enjoyed a few days away during the snow storm and weather we had. They went to staff homes and had a blast going to the Y, baking and playing games. It was a delightful time of bonding and fellowship for the girls and staff alike.
  • Last weekend we were having some mechanical issues with our van and took the opportunity to do some team building activities with the girls. It was really amazing to see some of them jump head first into working together. Our first activity was promoting kindness. Each girl (and staff) picked a name from the bowl and had to secretly do an act of kindness for that person. It was so cute watching them do things for each other while trying to throw off the person they had by doing acts of kindness to all of the girls.
  • Every quarter we mail out our newsletters. This past weekend the girls spend their Saturday getting the newsletters prepped to mail. I could hear them laughing and chatting away each time I would pass through. It’s a blessing to see the girls helping and giving back to all those who support and hold us up in prayer.


To see our newsletter, click here: Agape Connection Feb 2019


Prayer requests

  • As it gets further in the school year and closer to the time girls will start going home we, as staff, are stepping back and giving the girls more personal responsibilities. Our prayer is that the girls will respond well and grasp the life lessons we are teaching that will aid them not just through this time in their lives, but throughout their entire lives.
  • Many of the students who come here are hurting in one way or another. It’s difficult for them to receive love, it’s something they don’t understand. Pray for our students to understand God’s perfect love and how much He truly loves them. It’s only when they truly understand His love are they able to receive love from others in a healthy way.
  • The girls are struggling with sitting through the church service on Sundays. Please pray that the girls will have a hunger for the Lord and a desire to know Him more.

Give thanks to the Lord, for He is good;
His love endures forever.
1 Chronicles 16:34

We are excited to begin working on getting the boys home ready for students! Come and join us at:
119 Philips Ave in Walworth. We’ll be there working every Saturday from 8:30 a.m. – 12;00 p.m. until it’s finished.

Our annual 5k event will be here before you know it, and we hope that you are all able to participate in one way or another! Our goal is to celebrate Child Abuse Prevention Month, which is April, and bring awareness about child abuse to the community. We’ve had as many as 300 people (including children) participate in the past; and this is a great event for families! For more information or to register click HERE – for registration, scroll down to the green ‘Register’ button.

Looking Forward to All That God Will Do in 2019

Dear Friends – Happy New Year!

“I will praise You, for I am fearfully and wonderfully made;
marvelous are Your works, and that my soul knows very well.” ~ Psalm 139.14

We pray that the New Year has opened doors to God’s marvelous works for you! At Agape House we are seeing His light shining through so many people as we all come alongside of the residents/students, in so many ways, as we give God all the praise and glory.

PLEASE NOTE: We are in need of lunch servers on Tuesday, Wednesday & Thursday (29, 30 & 31 of January) due to the 5th week of the month. If you are able and willing to provide a lunch meal that week, please contact Debby at 262.275.6466.

Blessings to each one of you . . .
Agape Staff

Praise Reports:

  • The girls have been playing many games together. It’s so sweet walking into the multipurpose room and seeing groups of girls playing card games, others playing board games and all enjoying themselves. They do enjoy beating staff at the games as well.
  • In the home we have a level system where the students can earn privileges for different things. One girl was very surprised and excited when she learned she is moving up a level this week. She said she thought she’d never get there. God has been working so gently in their lives. It’s so neat to watch the Lord changing their hearts slowly and ever so softly. Many times they don’t even realize the changes they are making in their choices.
  • The girls received so many wonderful Christmas gifts this year through the generosity of so many of you! They enjoyed a Christmas pajama party to celebrate together before going home for Christmas. They were just as excited to open a box of AA batteries as they were for the games and other items! Thank you so much for your investment in the lives of our girls. You truly make a difference.

Prayer Requests:

  • As each girl becomes more comfortable with the program and staff she starts to share her heart and past. We’ve had a lot of deep hurts come up lately. Please intercede for the girls. So many of them are hurting and struggling to process in a healthy way. Please pray that the girls would be able to bring their struggles to staff and that the Lord would give them the words to verbalize what’s going on.
  • After the holidays it’s hard for the girls to face being here for six more months. They enjoy their time away from school and celebrating. Please pray for patience and a desire to continue growing and healing.
  • Family counseling sessions are key for the healing process of our students and their families. Please pray for wisdom for the counseling staff as they bring families together to strengthen and heal.

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